“Recognize the Root of Your Relationship Struggles”
Jun 06, 2025
Transforming Childhood Longings into Self-Generated Fulfillment
Many of our struggles in relationships can be traced back to unmet needs from childhood—needs we unconsciously project onto others in hopes they will finally be fulfilled.
“I wanted to feel special.” “I wanted to be truly loved.” These longings don’t just disappear. Instead, we begin expecting our partners, friends, or even colleagues to give us what we didn’t receive back then. “If you love me, you’ll fulfill my needs,” becomes the silent contract.
But here’s the truth:
This desire to be fulfilled by someone else is emotional dependency. And when those expectations go unmet, we feel betrayed, unloved, or resentful.
Sometimes that pain turns into blame, or even subtle revenge—We sabotage our health, our finances, or our peace of mind just to remain in the role of “the one who was wronged,” making the other person the villain in our story.
What we don’t realize is:
That energy of blame and attack doesn’t vanish—it circles back to us in unexpected ways. Like a boomerang we didn’t see coming.
And that’s a frightening reality.
This is why learning how the mind shapes reality—and expanding our awareness—is essential. When we stop waiting to be fulfilled and start taking responsibility for our own satisfaction, our perception begins to shift. Self-generated fulfillment leads to autonomous liberation. And that’s the beginning of true transformation.
The “Expanded State of Consciousness Mega Summit” is coming in June. I’ll share more about it in next week’s email.
To your ever-expanding mind and heart,
Saemi
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